Assertiveness
£425.00 Plus VAT (per person)
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Delivery Method
Open Public Courses – Virtual Delivery Only Closed Group Courses – Face To Face and Virtual Delivery
Business Benefit
Assertiveness is one of the key skills a successful person possesses. It is a tremendously powerful skill that will not only serve you in your work life but also in your personal life too. Assertiveness is about being responsible for yourself and making your life work for you, instead of being a victim of circumstance. This programme has been specifically designed to give you the confidence and ability to say “no” as well as feeling comfortable when putting your views and opinions across in a range of formal and informal situations.
Who Should Attend
Do you sometimes wish that you could come over as being cool, calm, confident and in control in a variety of work and non-workplace situations?
Do you sometimes feel that life takes control of you rather than the other way around?
Do you find it hard to say “No”?
Do you always give in to what others want, regardless of your own feelings?
Do you find yourself bullied or pressured by aggressive or overbearing people?
Do you bottle up anger and bite your tongue when you know you should speak up?
Learning Outcomes
Defining Assertiveness and Assertive Behavior:
Assertiveness is a communication style characterized by the honest and confident expression of one’s needs, wants, opinions, and boundaries while respecting the rights and feelings of others. Assertive behavior involves effectively and respectfully asserting oneself in various situations.
Differences Between Assertive and Aggressive Behavior:
- Assertive Behavior: Assertive individuals express their thoughts and feelings clearly and respectfully. They stand up for their rights without violating the rights of others.
- Aggressive Behavior: Aggressive individuals express their thoughts and feelings forcefully, often at the expense of others. They may disregard the feelings and boundaries of others.
Demonstrating an Assertive Image in the Hearts and Minds of Others:
To establish an assertive image, one must consistently exhibit confidence, respect for others, and the ability to communicate clearly and effectively.
Understanding and Asserting Your Rights in the Workplace:
Asserting your rights in the workplace involves knowing what you’re entitled to in terms of fair treatment, expressing your needs and concerns professionally, and seeking resolutions when necessary.
Understanding Why Some People Are Assertive and Some Are Not:
People’s assertiveness levels can be influenced by upbringing, personality, cultural factors, and past experiences. Some may naturally lean towards assertiveness, while others may struggle due to fear or lack of confidence.
Understanding and Overcoming the Fears and Barriers to Becoming Assertive:
Common fears and barriers to assertiveness include fear of confrontation, fear of rejection, and concerns about others’ reactions. Overcoming these barriers involves building self-confidence, setting clear boundaries, and practicing assertive communication.
Learning How to Say ‘No!’:
Saying ‘No’ assertively is a crucial skill. It involves respectfully declining requests or demands while offering an explanation or alternative, if appropriate.
Learning Practical Tips on How to Become More Assertive:
Practical tips may include role-playing, assertiveness training, setting clear goals, and practicing assertive language and body language.
Understanding Communication Styles:
Communication styles refer to the habitual ways individuals express themselves, which can be passive, assertive, or aggressive.
The Verbal & Non-Verbal Skills of Assertiveness:
Verbal skills encompass effective communication, tone of voice, and choice of words. Non-verbal skills include maintaining eye contact, using open body language, and expressing confidence through posture.
How Listening, Questioning, and Feedback Skills Can Improve the Impact of Assertiveness:
Effective listening, asking open-ended questions, and providing constructive feedback enhance assertiveness by demonstrating respect for others’ perspectives and promoting effective communication.
Adapting Assertiveness Skills to Different People and Different Situations:
Being assertive doesn’t mean a one-size-fits-all approach. It involves adapting your communication style to suit the situation and the individuals involved, while still maintaining respect for yourself and others.
By gaining a comprehensive understanding of assertiveness, practicing assertive behavior, and honing the associated skills, individuals can navigate various social and professional scenarios with confidence and respect, fostering healthier relationships and achieving their goals effectively.
Course Content
Assertiveness and Assertive Behavior:
Assertiveness is a communication style characterized by expressing your thoughts, feelings, needs, and boundaries in a respectful, honest, and confident manner. Assertive behavior involves effectively communicating your wants and needs while also considering the rights and feelings of others.
Differences Between Assertive and Aggressive Behavior:
- Assertive Behavior: Assertive individuals express themselves clearly, assert their rights, and express their feelings, but they do so respectfully, without violating the rights of others.
- Aggressive Behavior: Aggressive individuals express themselves forcefully, often at the expense of others. They may disregard the feelings and boundaries of others and may resort to intimidation or hostility.
Understanding Why Some People Are Assertive and Some Are Not:
People’s assertiveness levels can be influenced by various factors, including upbringing, personality traits, cultural background, and past experiences. Some individuals naturally possess assertive tendencies, while others may struggle due to fear or a lack of self-confidence.
Ways to Overcome the Fears and Barriers to Becoming Assertive:
Overcoming the fears and barriers to becoming assertive may involve self-reflection, confidence-building exercises, assertiveness training, and seeking support from professionals or peers. It’s essential to identify and address the specific obstacles that hinder assertiveness.
Techniques for Saying “No” While Preserving the Relationship:
Saying “no” assertively involves expressing your refusal clearly and respectfully, offering an explanation or alternative when appropriate, and maintaining open communication to preserve the relationship.
Practical Tips on How to Become More Assertive in a Range of Situations:
Practical tips for becoming more assertive include setting clear goals, practicing assertive communication techniques, role-playing challenging scenarios, and gradually stepping out of your comfort zone.
The Verbal and Non-Verbal Skills of Assertiveness:
Verbal skills encompass effective communication, tone of voice, and choice of words. Non-verbal skills involve maintaining eye contact, using open body language, and projecting confidence through posture and gestures.
How Listening, Questioning, and Feedback Skills Can Improve Your Impact:
Improving your impact through assertiveness involves active listening to understand others’ perspectives, asking open-ended questions to encourage dialogue, and providing constructive feedback to enhance communication and collaboration.
By developing these assertiveness skills and strategies, individuals can navigate various personal and professional situations with confidence, build healthier relationships, and achieve their goals effectively while maintaining respect for themselves and others.
Our content is supported by leading and acknowledged theorists and models
How to Book
Dates below represent open public courses only. To book this course, please select an available date and click the book now button below to complete the booking. Have two or more people to train – you may consider a closed group course. Contact us on [email protected] to discuss specific date and delivery requirements.
Measuring The Success
The purpose of your training is learning new skills and/or changing behaviour. We can help you measure this!
To evaluate how successfully the attendees are doing this, delegates can attend a Workplace Implementation session during the skills transfer period. The cost of the session is £595+VAT delivered virtually and lasts for 2.5 hours.
During the Workplace Implementation session the individuals will either on a 1-2-1 basis or as a group discuss the challenges and successes they have experienced during their skills transfer period.
This will include what they are doing differently as a direct result of the training and how this has positively impacted the organisation.
This is an excellent way to encourage the learning, support the skills transfer into the workplace and act as a measure to evaluate the training.
We compile this information into a report so that you have evidence of your return on investment.